Sexual Curiosity
Most teenagers are curios about sex. Maybe it’s not their fault, but is mostly a result of the raging hormones that teenagers have. They would need a way to release the surge in hormones or else the might die. Ok dying is way overboard. Most of them become curious and enter into sexual relationships during this time. But if you’re child is a loser or dork, have no fear, he’s safe from the temptation. But when he is able to find a female loser that’s also so curious, and then read on.
It is better as parent to be able to discuss safe sex with his child as early as possible (and I’m not talking about the birds and the bees’ speech.). It would be better to discuss this earlier. So that when his hormones start going into hyper driver, he or she should know what the proper ways of handling the situation. It may be very awkward for some parents but to make it easy, just remember the same thing your father went through with you. (Or maybe you should stick with the birds and the bees with a little mature thing with it)
On a serious note, here are some things you can consider discussing with your child. How he or she should be practicing safe sex. To prevent unwanted pregnancies that may destroy his or her dreams or have sexually transmitted diseases.
There are four methods to safe sex, the reversible non prescription methods, combined hormone methods, progestin-only methods and the behavioral methods. Each method may have varying results again depending on the person. Let us discuss here the method of behavioral methods.
The behavioral methods include the abstinence method, the withdrawal method, LAM and the outer course method. The abstinence method is the most effective way to prevent pregnancy and transmitted disease. This method however is also the hardest method to do, despite its simplicity. The only thing to do here is that the man and the woman do not maintain sexual contact, but both would need to be very strong-willed in their belief on abstaining from sex.
The withdrawal method is usually used by couples, who have great self control, men who do not ejaculate prematurely, and men who are already experienced. This method is not that full proof because thee is always a chance that sperm may be left behind. Even the smallest amount of semen that enters into the vulva will cause the woman to be pregnant. This method is usually used when no other safety method is available and definitely not suggested for teenagers.
The outer course is what some people say is a safer way to sex because some methods involve no penetration in the vagina or no penetration at all. Some ways to practice outer course methods are through masturbation (either alone or with the partner), kissing, body to body rubbing that may include their sex organs, erotic massage, fantasize through the internet, shows, etc., sex toys such as vibrators, oral sex play and anal sex play. Through outer course it may make sex play longer and increase intimacy. This is also safe way because it will have no medical or hormonal side effects and there will is more chances that semen and vaginal fluids are not exchanged.
The LAM method (Lactation Amarhea Method) is a method for women to help them in postponing ovulation. This is done by making the woman do continuous breast feeding as it stimulates the hormone prolactin and prevents the release of another needed for ovulation. However the LAM method is only effective for the 1st six months of the woman’s pregnancy and the woman hasn’t had a period since she gave birth and suckles baby 6 times a day on both breast.
Hope that by discussing these methods with your children it may help prevent you from being a young grandparent. There are methods to choose from, if you do not see the methods of behavioral prevention that effective.
